i'd whip my hair back and forth.

I just realized my hair is getting longer (: yay! The longest hair I had was back in 2008. Ever since, there had been haircuts and "trims" here and there. I don't like how the salon lady had to do more than just a trim, but I told her not to for the past two years. Although, nowadays my hair is dry and frizzy :( 

I had researching around and found this: "To cure dry hair, you need the right hair care products. Choose products specifically designed for dry hair. Always use a moisturizing conditioner after shampoo. Dry hair needs moisture every time you wash it. Avoid applying shampoo to the ends of the hair which can further dry it out." from ehow.com. The only problem is, conditioner causes my hair to fall out a loooot :/ The same goes for curing frizzy hair, only that I have to comb my hair during showers.Yet, that still cause my hair the same result. My hair used to be so thick back then D:

Any tips?